Divorce Strategist & Alternative Divorce Guide

Why do I do this? Through my own experience of family break up, of not having any legal protection (no living together agreement), and watching my married friends get divorced and the misery and cost and conflict that came about, I felt a need to share what I have learned. Save £65,000 on your divorce and keep the money for the kids: A healthier way to divorce is by saving thousands and putting the kids first: https://alternativedivorcedirectory.co.uk/save%20%C2%A365000%20on%20your%20divorce/ I created Starting Over Show events; a Directory of experts focused on non-adversarial ways to divorce (mediation, collaborative law – all keeping people out of court); and a way to create a Living Together Life Plan and Agreement so those who don’t marry will not end up in the situation I found myself in. And as the Alternative Divorce Guide, I am always happy to guide people towards the right person to talk to at the right time. I believe conflict is a natural way for us to learn about ourselves, and to practice not being so judgemental of others. How come? Well, because the only way we can find peace through major life shifts like divorce, family separation, and also more positive events such as starting a family in a living together relationship – is to change the way we see these events, and so therefore, the way we deal with them. These are all times in our lives when we can feel under pressure. And the more we learn to not judge and condemn or have totally unrealistic expectations of others, the better the outcomes, the more peaceful we become. But how can we do that in practice? It is the holistic blending of life coaching, counselling, and healing arts with the legal and financial aspects, that makes for a successful map to carry on life’s journey through challenging situations. I am happy to be your guide if you need some help navigating some of those more tricky life changes, and want to do it in a way that ultimately (whatever you may believe at the moment is possible) will bring you more peace. Feel free to email me at Suzy@StartingOverShow.com, or ask questions in our Forum. Best wishes Suzy